Child Study Center Grand Rounds 10.05.2021
October 29, 2021Outer SPACE: Novel Applications of Parent-Based Treatment for Restricted Eating, Somatic Problems, and ‘Failure to Launch'
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- 00:00Thank you we we're it's every week
- 00:02a little bit of work in progress.
- 00:04So thank you for your patience and I'm
- 00:07just going to say two things before
- 00:08passing it onto Julie children and
- 00:11the only the first thing that I'm
- 00:13going to say it's our reminder of
- 00:16next week's grand rounds next week,
- 00:19October 12th is Indigenous Peoples Day.
- 00:23Formerly known as Columbus Day.
- 00:25And we're going to have a presentation
- 00:28that I'm really looking forward
- 00:29to that's perfectly timed.
- 00:31By the title of Native American
- 00:33Mental health and introduction,
- 00:35and an invitation, and it's going
- 00:37to be presented by our colleagues.
- 00:40Now the CHILD Study Center,
- 00:41we have a big partnership led
- 00:44by Chris Carter,
- 00:45who is an assistant professor
- 00:47and marked by tell,
- 00:48an associate research scientist,
- 00:50and they have been doing
- 00:52really important work.
- 00:53So we look forward to that.
- 00:55And the second thing I'm going to
- 00:57say is introduce our introduce Sir,
- 00:58and that is Julie Charlton.
- 01:01Julie Chilton is one of the members
- 01:03of the new Grand Rounds Committee and
- 01:06Julie is an alum from our program,
- 01:09and she in fact has been leading
- 01:13our alumni group collaboration,
- 01:15Facebook page etc and she joins
- 01:18us today from North Carolina to
- 01:21introduce our speaker Julie,
- 01:23take it away a lot while I continue
- 01:24being dis jockey with a technical thing.
- 01:26So go ahead,
- 01:27Julie,
- 01:28thank you Andres, this is.
- 01:31So special for me to make
- 01:35this introduction today.
- 01:37From the from the first time I met him.
- 01:40He was wise beyond his years and uhm.
- 01:46Just a bundle of joy,
- 01:49and it had spark in his eye and.
- 01:52Just had the most beautiful Gray hair and
- 01:56in my mind he was the pick of the litter.
- 02:01He and this is this is Winston and I
- 02:05wanted Winston to say hi to everybody
- 02:08to introduce Eli today and Eli has
- 02:12been a long time mentor of mine.
- 02:16All kidding aside,
- 02:18beginning in 2012 when I graduated
- 02:21from fellowship and.
- 02:22He pretty much single handedly
- 02:25filled my waiting room of my first
- 02:28private practice with all kinds
- 02:31of wonderful patients with a meta
- 02:34phobia and school avoidance OCD.
- 02:37Phobias of other kinds.
- 02:39And not only did he deliver me
- 02:42patience as a brand new clinician,
- 02:44but he met me for coffee and he
- 02:47taught me how to do right by them and
- 02:51gave me all the tricks of the trade.
- 02:54And there is truly no clinician
- 02:58today that has shaped my personal
- 03:02practice as a anxiety disorder
- 03:06specialist more than Eli Lebowitz.
- 03:10And what was the most interesting
- 03:13is this past year when I became
- 03:16a new stepmom to be of a 3 year
- 03:19old and a 9 year old.
- 03:21And for the first time,
- 03:23instead of being a space
- 03:26clinician helping families,
- 03:27I got to experience what supportive
- 03:30parenting for anxious childhood
- 03:32emotions was like from the other end.
- 03:34And it was the most wonderful other
- 03:38side to see Ellie's work and how
- 03:41much it helped our nine year old
- 03:44with his RFID and his anxiety.
- 03:47And Yara really just.
- 03:50Did a brilliant job and it was such a
- 03:55pleasure for me to to see it in action.
- 03:59On the other side of things and I'm
- 04:01so grateful to Eli and Company for
- 04:04having developed the space program.
- 04:06Now that I even have benefited
- 04:07it on the other side.
- 04:09So without further ado,
- 04:10my dear dear friend and
- 04:12mentor Doctor Liebowitz?
- 04:33One second.
- 04:37Yeah.
- 04:39So difficult.
- 04:51Can y'all hear me Julie,
- 04:53can you hear me? OK, I give you.
- 04:56Can you turn off your camera.
- 04:58Julie, because we're getting
- 04:59a different view here.
- 05:03This is a work in progress my friends.
- 05:08Ellie, you definitely need person to read.
- 05:15OK, hold on. Hold on, there's hope
- 05:18there's hope, ah. Uh, Julie.
- 05:25Just move it down OK? Here we go OK, ladies
- 05:29and gentlemen, I give you alleyways.
- 05:37It's it's recording OK.
- 05:42Wow.
- 05:46I thought if I just waited
- 05:48long enough I wouldn't have to
- 05:50do this at all at this point.
- 05:53Well, first of all,
- 05:55thank you Julie for that eulogy,
- 05:58that was. That was very nice.
- 06:01I knew I could count on you.
- 06:02I thought you were talking
- 06:03about undress at first,
- 06:04but then you mentioned the hair.
- 06:08And thank you to address and committee
- 06:11for the opportunity to talk with you
- 06:14about the work we're doing in the area
- 06:17of child anxiety problems and beyond.
- 06:19They don't have special disclosures for
- 06:22this talk or conflicts of interests.
- 06:25Some grant funding and some royalties.
- 06:28So in terms of what?
- 06:30Want to try to do with the time left?
- 06:34Now I'm trying to think what
- 06:35we should cut from this.
- 06:37I want to start by very briefly telling
- 06:41you what space is apparent based
- 06:43treatment developed for child anxiety
- 06:45and obsessive compulsive disorder,
- 06:46and to update you and some of our clinical
- 06:49trial research and some interesting
- 06:52findings emanating from that research,
- 06:54but with the bulk of the time.
- 06:57I actually want to talk
- 06:59about some of the newer.
- 07:01Expansions and adaptations
- 07:04of space beyond the child.
- 07:07Anxiety and OCD which were the original
- 07:10focus and those include work in the
- 07:13area of eating problems, specifically,
- 07:15avoidant restrictive food intake,
- 07:17disorder or fed.
- 07:19Work with physical complaints.
- 07:22Medically unexplained.
- 07:23Somatic symptoms. So what is space?
- 07:29Space is.
- 07:32A parent based treatment for
- 07:34child anxiety that's informed by a
- 07:37systemic view of anxiety in children.
- 07:43At the heart of the treatment are really
- 07:46a few key principles and insights.
- 07:50First. The understanding that.
- 07:55Children respond like other
- 07:58mammals respond to fear.
- 08:00In an interpersonal way,
- 08:02oriented toward their caregivers by
- 08:04looking to their caregivers, primarily,
- 08:06parents for protection and for regulation,
- 08:10and soothing and that parents are
- 08:12powerfully motivated to respond
- 08:14to cues of fear in their children.
- 08:16By stepping in to provide
- 08:18protection and regulation.
- 08:22And that seems rather obvious, I think.
- 08:26But that interpersonal aspect of child
- 08:29anxiety, the aspect that actually most
- 08:32differentiates it from anxiety and adults,
- 08:34has exerted relatively little influence over
- 08:37the way that we conceptualize and treat
- 08:39anxiety in children over the years. Ah.
- 08:44Most child anxiety treatment protocols take,
- 08:46for example, cognitive behavioral
- 08:48therapy protocols for anxiety,
- 08:49and children emphasize the
- 08:52individual level symptoms.
- 08:54They mirror very closely.
- 08:56Protocols for anxiety, treatment of adults,
- 08:58and they focus on those individual level
- 09:01symptoms like the dysregulated Physiology,
- 09:03the distorted cognition, the maladaptive
- 09:07behavioral avoidance altogether,
- 09:09usually termed the tripartite model
- 09:11of anxiety and so influential is.
- 09:14That model that even when parents have been.
- 09:18Involved in child anxiety treatment
- 09:20as has happened many times in multiple
- 09:23clinical studies over the years,
- 09:25they're generally involved as
- 09:26what is called lay CBT therapist,
- 09:28so they're there to amplify the
- 09:30messages that the child is receiving
- 09:33directly from the therapist,
- 09:34but with little emphasis on their
- 09:37unique role as parents in relation
- 09:39to their child's anxiety symptoms.
- 09:41In space,
- 09:42that interpersonal aspect is central
- 09:45to treatment and parents are involved,
- 09:48not as lazy BT therapists,
- 09:50but as active clients and agents
- 09:52of change for their child.
- 09:54A second important principle for
- 09:56space is a focus on self change
- 09:58rather than other change.
- 10:00What that means is that parents
- 10:02in space learn a lot of tools
- 10:04and strategies and skills,
- 10:06but all of those are focused on
- 10:08modifying the parents own behavior
- 10:10rather than instructing them.
- 10:12To go home and try to directly
- 10:15modify their child's behavior.
- 10:17We make a simple promise to
- 10:19parents in treatment.
- 10:20We say at no point in this
- 10:21therapy are we going to ask you to
- 10:23make your child do anything.
- 10:25Or to make them not do anything.
- 10:27And the reason that's important
- 10:29is that when you do ask parents
- 10:32to modify their child's behavior,
- 10:33you're taking a risk.
- 10:35It can go well when a child is open and
- 10:37amenable and agreeable to those suggestions,
- 10:40but when they're not,
- 10:42you run into problems,
- 10:43because then there's resistance
- 10:44and the potential for a process of.
- 10:47Conflict escalation,
- 10:49sometimes even aggression,
- 10:51and so we focus on modifying
- 10:53the parents own behavior.
- 10:55And it turns out that when parents are
- 10:57able to make some changes in how they
- 10:59are responding to their anxious child,
- 11:01we can lead to really significant
- 11:03changes in the child themselves,
- 11:05even without the need for direct
- 11:07child therapy.
- 11:07And without that risk of conflict
- 11:10and escalation,
- 11:11and while maintaining a warm and loving
- 11:13and supportive attitude toward the child,
- 11:15so we don't have a lot of time, but.
- 11:18I guess I'm going to try to distill what
- 11:21happens in space into these two key points,
- 11:24each of which reflect one of the
- 11:26changes that parents learn to make.
- 11:27One is,
- 11:28parents learn to be more supportive
- 11:30in response to their anxious child,
- 11:32and the other is to reduce their
- 11:35accommodating behaviors and
- 11:36by support in space,
- 11:37what we mean is an integration
- 11:40of acceptance and confidence,
- 11:42and so parents learn to express acceptance,
- 11:45meaning to convey acknowledgement and
- 11:47validation of the child's genuine distress.
- 11:50And confidence in their child's ability
- 11:52to tolerate some distress to cope,
- 11:54get through it, and ultimately be OK.
- 11:57Neither one of those things is
- 12:00necessarily intuitive to parents or
- 12:01particularly common in how parents are
- 12:04actually responding to anxious children.
- 12:06Often we respond without validation,
- 12:08like an anxious child says I'm scared or
- 12:10it's frightening, and we say no, it's not.
- 12:12We don't mean to invalidate them,
- 12:14but we are essentially communicating
- 12:16that they either don't or shouldn't
- 12:18be feeling what they do feel.
- 12:20And confidence is not always there.
- 12:22Many children will grow up
- 12:24hearing themselves,
- 12:24explicitly described as children
- 12:26who can't handle anxiety who
- 12:29fall apart in the face of stress.
- 12:31And so those are the two big
- 12:33changes becoming more supportive
- 12:35and systematically identifying,
- 12:37monitoring and reducing the accommodations.
- 12:41Now, I'm not going to go deeper
- 12:43into the treatment.
- 12:44I thought I would share a really brief
- 12:47video clip taken from a news article
- 12:50made about space that captures one
- 12:53family's experience in our program.
- 12:55So let's all keep our fingers
- 12:57crossed right now.
- 12:59We let's say.
- 13:05Bedtime for some families can
- 13:07become a struggle, but when the
- 13:09goodnight routine for Nicole Murphy,
- 13:11Sun began to stretch for up to three hours,
- 13:14she knew she needed help
- 13:16with his separation anxiety.
- 13:18His little mind was always racing non-stop,
- 13:21so it was kind of hard for
- 13:22him to shut that off.
- 13:23I think Eli Lebowitz and his
- 13:25colleagues at the Yale Child Study
- 13:27Center developed a method of training
- 13:29parents to support anxious children.
- 13:32It's called space
- 13:34or supportive parenting for
- 13:36anxious childhood emotions.
- 13:38Parents go through training to help
- 13:40their child face anxiety. Leibowitz
- 13:42says the first step is to show
- 13:44support and not downplay
- 13:47what their child is feeling.
- 13:48I get it. This is really hard,
- 13:51but I know you can handle it.
- 13:54Leibowitz says.
- 13:55Parents also learn to help their
- 13:57child by not accommodating them. For
- 13:59example, a parent who would limit
- 14:02visitors for a child who gets.
- 14:03Anxious around strangers or speaks
- 14:05for a child who gets nervous speaking
- 14:08learns not to take those steps in a
- 14:11study of 124 kids and their parents.
- 14:14The Yale researchers
- 14:15examined whether the space intervention
- 14:17was effective in treating
- 14:19children's anxiety even
- 14:20though the children never met directly
- 14:22with the therapist and all the
- 14:24work was done through the parents,
- 14:26we found that space was just
- 14:28as effective as CBT in treating
- 14:31childhood anxiety disorders.
- 14:33The Murphys used the techniques
- 14:35learned through space to coach
- 14:37their son through bedtime.
- 14:38Within a few weeks he was
- 14:41falling asleep in 30 minutes.
- 14:43It was like life changing. Honestly.
- 14:45I'm Nancy Alvarez reporting.
- 14:50It's a nice example,
- 14:51though of how even a two or three
- 14:54minute video can introduce parents
- 14:56to a new kind of treatment.
- 14:58This has aired in every state in the country,
- 15:01and so a lot of people can discover
- 15:03another treatment option that they
- 15:04otherwise wouldn't know about.
- 15:06Now this is a data taken from the
- 15:09clinical trial mentioned in that video,
- 15:13and as you heard,
- 15:14what we found was essentially complete
- 15:16non inferiority for space relative.
- 15:18CBT both in terms of response to the
- 15:21treatment and also in terms of remission,
- 15:24but alongside establishing the
- 15:26efficacy of the treatment,
- 15:28another goal of really major
- 15:30importance is identifying the
- 15:32moderators of treatment outcomes.
- 15:34In other words,
- 15:34if we can figure out who are the
- 15:37children who respond best to a
- 15:38parent based treatment like space
- 15:40and who are the children who respond
- 15:42best to a child based treatment
- 15:44like cognitive behavioral therapy,
- 15:45we might be able to supercharge the.
- 15:49Overall,
- 15:49efficacy of our treatments and that
- 15:52was the goal in another study with a.
- 15:56Really brilliant Israeli psychologist
- 15:58faults Eagleville Manoe where
- 16:01we analyze the data.
- 16:02I'm used a random forest method of
- 16:06machine learning to try to examine
- 16:09endless combinations of baseline
- 16:11characteristics to identify the pathways,
- 16:14the combinations that really
- 16:16predict best differential outcome
- 16:18for the two treatments.
- 16:20This is published in JCP and
- 16:22some of what we found was,
- 16:25I think, more intuitively.
- 16:27Guessable like.
- 16:29Parental negativity, the other
- 16:30variables a little bit less obvious,
- 16:33even biological variable.
- 16:34So for example,
- 16:35salivary levels of oxytocin in
- 16:37both the children and the mothers
- 16:39ended up interacting with the other
- 16:42variables to predict differential
- 16:43outcomes for space and CBT,
- 16:46and that did not take us
- 16:48completely by surprise.
- 16:49We've been interested in oxytocin
- 16:50for quite a few years now,
- 16:52and have been measuring it in
- 16:54kids and mothers because of the
- 16:57deep implication of oxytocin,
- 16:58the way it's.
- 16:59Implicated in both anxiety regulation and
- 17:02close interpersonal and affiliative behavior.
- 17:06And when you think about the way that
- 17:08we're really conceptualizing anxiety
- 17:09in children as a phenomenon that
- 17:12exists at the intersection of fear
- 17:14and attachment and interpersonal behavior,
- 17:17it's maybe not that surprising,
- 17:18but it's kind of cool to see it being
- 17:21selected by this machine learning
- 17:22algorithm as one of those key variables.
- 17:25I think it takes us its preliminary needs,
- 17:27replication etc,
- 17:28but takes us one step closer to the.
- 17:33Holy Grail in a sense,
- 17:35the the long sought after but still
- 17:38quite distant goal of bringing a
- 17:41precision medicine model to anxiety
- 17:43treatment and to a day when we
- 17:46might be able to actually integrate
- 17:48behavioral biological variables to
- 17:50inform clinical decision making and
- 17:53prescription. Now in. Recent years.
- 18:00And this is really a.
- 18:02Favorite collaboration for me
- 18:04with Dillon Gee from psychology.
- 18:06We've also been working to try to
- 18:09understand and learn more about the
- 18:11mechanisms through which space is
- 18:13bringing about the clinical improvement.
- 18:16And this aligns well with NIH's
- 18:18priorities of establishing not only
- 18:21efficacy for novel therapeutics,
- 18:23but also establishing the targets and
- 18:25mechanisms through which they work.
- 18:27And so we've been conducting
- 18:29clinical trials of space,
- 18:30but integrating brain imaging
- 18:31using F MRI before and after
- 18:34treatment to learn about what is
- 18:36changing in children's brains as
- 18:38parents go through this treatment.
- 18:40And we use a novel twist on a well
- 18:43established brain imaging paradigm.
- 18:45So instead of having.
- 18:46Just a child in the scanner and you
- 18:48show them some images and some of
- 18:49them are more fear inducing and you
- 18:51look at their amygdala, reactivity,
- 18:53and the connectivity of the amygdala,
- 18:55with regions like the medial
- 18:57prefrontal cortex.
- 18:58Instead of doing just that,
- 18:59we do it but with A twist,
- 19:01which is we scan each child twice,
- 19:03once when they're alone and once
- 19:05when their mother is standing right
- 19:06next to them and holding their hand
- 19:08so that we can get some indicator
- 19:10of how much this child is reliant on
- 19:13parental proximity and contact for
- 19:16fear regulation at the brain level.
- 19:19And by doing that both before
- 19:21and after treatment,
- 19:22we can learn about how these
- 19:25treatments are working now one phase.
- 19:28Of this study is actually complete,
- 19:30and there we compared space to a parent
- 19:33based psychoeducational control condition,
- 19:36which we nicknamed.
- 19:39PS and.
- 19:41We're learning a lot,
- 19:42but we did run into some interference
- 19:45in doing this study in the form of
- 19:48everybody's favorite coronavirus.
- 19:52I think one of our worst days was
- 19:55when we all went into lockdown and
- 19:58realized that we have 20 plus children
- 20:00actively in treatment who all had their
- 20:03pretreatment brain scans and we're going
- 20:05through treatment and wouldn't be able
- 20:07to complete all the study procedures.
- 20:09And I do realize that that is a small thing
- 20:12relative to global impacts of pandemics,
- 20:15but it was kind of heartbreaking for us.
- 20:18We quickly adapted.
- 20:19We went to doing treatment over zoom,
- 20:21which had been an option even
- 20:22previously so no child didn't complete
- 20:24their treatment because of it,
- 20:26and we even got clinical measures
- 20:28over zoom and Qualtrics etc.
- 20:29But all of our efforts to do brain
- 20:32imaging over zoom resulted in failure,
- 20:35and so we did end up with a smaller data
- 20:38set in terms of the neurology then or
- 20:41neurobiology than we would have liked.
- 20:43Still, we're using that data
- 20:45and learning what we can and so
- 20:47for example looking clinically.
- 20:49We see significantly greater reduction
- 20:51in child anxiety severity following
- 20:53space relative to the educational
- 20:55support condition you're looking at the
- 20:57same data on both sides of that slide,
- 20:59so you can choose if you like lines or bars,
- 21:01and likewise significantly more
- 21:04reduction in family accommodation.
- 21:06Following space, as I mentioned,
- 21:08we ended up with less brain data
- 21:10than we would have liked,
- 21:11but we were able to show
- 21:14that following space,
- 21:16the difference between the
- 21:18child's response when.
- 21:19They are alone and when the mother
- 21:22is there really went away so
- 21:24that we no longer see more.
- 21:26I guess you could say we no longer see
- 21:29their reliance on the parents proximity
- 21:32for fear regulation at the brain level and
- 21:36that was after space and not so after PS.
- 21:39So I think that is really
- 21:41interesting in terms of.
- 21:43Hey just having some.
- 21:45Pre and post treatment imaging data,
- 21:48which is kind of unique in
- 21:49the child anxiety world,
- 21:51but more specifically about how space
- 21:54is bringing about those changes now.
- 21:57In one attempt,
- 21:59I think to make some.
- 22:02Lemonade out of some very sour lemons
- 22:04that Kovid had served up for us.
- 22:06We did realize that we had a kind of
- 22:08unique data set because we had scanned
- 22:10all these children before the pandemic
- 22:12and had been following them clinically,
- 22:14and so we thought.
- 22:15What could we learn from that?
- 22:16And here I want to highlight the
- 22:19work of Elizabeth Kit in Dillons Lab
- 22:21who took the lead on this and what
- 22:24we're showing here is that children
- 22:26whose mothers buffered their anxiety
- 22:28response before COVID disrupted
- 22:30their lives were also more buffered.
- 22:33Next,
- 22:33we impacts of exposure to COVID
- 22:36related stress on their anxiety levels
- 22:38as they're living through this,
- 22:41you know the lockdowns and pandemic etc.
- 22:44And finally, before I move on.
- 22:49In another example of ways in which
- 22:52we're harnessing this kind of data too.
- 22:54Learn more about the intergenerational
- 22:56cross generational effects
- 22:57in anxiety and here really,
- 22:59with the generous support of
- 23:00one of the child study centers,
- 23:02devoted associates were also.
- 23:07Collecting brain imaging from
- 23:08mothers of the anxious children.
- 23:11This is also very disrupted by COVID,
- 23:13but in an example of the
- 23:15kind of things we're seeing,
- 23:16we see that mothers of more anxious
- 23:18children are also showing themselves
- 23:20greater amygdala reactivity to a similar
- 23:23to a similar task in the scanner.
- 23:26Alright, with that,
- 23:26I'm really going to move into the newer
- 23:29expansions and adaptations that were
- 23:30supposed to be the bulk of the time
- 23:32for this talk, but I do want to say that.
- 23:36The work in those areas,
- 23:37the RFID etc is much newer.
- 23:40It's less.
- 23:41Fully baked, it's less mature.
- 23:43The evidence base is last mature.
- 23:45I wanted to talk about it 'cause
- 23:47I find it really exciting and
- 23:48invigorating and also reflects the
- 23:50work of some amazing team members.
- 23:52But bear in mind that while the
- 23:55anxiety work is fairly well advanced,
- 23:57we have a solid evidence
- 23:58base that's rapidly growing.
- 23:59Here we are in earlier stages and some
- 24:02of it we're still figuring out and so
- 24:04have that in mind as we go through.
- 24:06But the first area that I wanted to
- 24:09touch on is the eating and specifically.
- 24:12Are fit in here really a project
- 24:14spearheaded by the Amazing,
- 24:16Wonderful Jarisch in Shawnee that
- 24:18you heard even in about from Julie
- 24:20at the beginning? Really an amazing.
- 24:24Clinician and researcher who was here
- 24:26for several years at the Child Study Center,
- 24:28both as a postdoc in house faculty and
- 24:30now he's back on her kibbutz in Israel,
- 24:33but he's going to be here next
- 24:36week and remains on our faculty
- 24:38and a close collaborator and.
- 24:40Yeah,
- 24:40it was a really savvy clinician
- 24:42and what she capitalized on what
- 24:44she realized is something that
- 24:45we have been noticing and talking
- 24:47about in our program for years
- 24:49but hadn't really taken action on.
- 24:51And that was children that we
- 24:54diagnosed as having food phobias.
- 24:57But we realized that part of their
- 24:59problem was an anxiety problem,
- 25:01but also it was an eating disorder
- 25:04and this fit with the emergence of
- 25:07RFID as a new diagnosis in the DSM 5.
- 25:13And So what is RFID?
- 25:14Essentially we're talking about
- 25:17really extreme pickiness in eating
- 25:20with really significant impairment.
- 25:23We have nutritional problems because
- 25:26we're not eating healthy and you
- 25:29know energy intake but also a
- 25:32lot of psychosocial impairment.
- 25:34Now, in a lot of cases,
- 25:36the selective selectiveness and
- 25:37pickiness are driven by the sensory
- 25:40characteristics of the food,
- 25:42like the color, the texture,
- 25:44the shape, the smell,
- 25:45and in other cases a big part of it is
- 25:48fear of negative consequences of eating.
- 25:50Like if I eat hard foods, I might choke,
- 25:52and sometimes it really seems to
- 25:53be a lot about a low appetite,
- 25:55low interest in food about that
- 25:57is a little bit less common.
- 25:59Now, a certain amount of picky
- 26:02eating is fairly normative.
- 26:04In early childhood,
- 26:05we see it really picked,
- 26:07taking off at around age 2 years.
- 26:10At age 3,
- 26:10it kind of peaks and by school age
- 26:12it has started to subside with most
- 26:14cases kind of trailing off and not
- 26:16continuing to be a big problem.
- 26:18But in some cases the pickiness persists.
- 26:21Or we might have later onset
- 26:24or return of pickiness.
- 26:26And then it can really wreak
- 26:28havoc on an entire families.
- 26:30Life with mealtimes,
- 26:31becoming these battlefields fraught with
- 26:34a lot of stress and conflict and tension,
- 26:37and a lot of other impacts on just
- 26:39daily life for the child and the family,
- 26:41there's not a ton of research
- 26:43on picky eating.
- 26:44I was going to highlight one study
- 26:47by Emmett at all who looked at
- 26:49babies really like just over a year
- 26:51old who are picky eaters and then
- 26:54followed again two years later.
- 26:56And what they what they report
- 26:58is kind of interesting,
- 26:59which is that the likelihood?
- 27:01Still,
- 27:01being a picky eater two years
- 27:03later was greater when the mothers
- 27:05were more concerned about the
- 27:07picky eating earlier on.
- 27:09Now that maybe in a lot of cases,
- 27:11because those mothers were savvy and
- 27:13they realized that their child had a
- 27:15more serious problem that might persist,
- 27:16but it may also reflect to some
- 27:20extent the impact of the.
- 27:22Ways you know the dynamics that parents
- 27:24get sucked into when their child
- 27:27isn't eating and they do everything
- 27:29they can think of to get them to eat.
- 27:31And I mentioned before it's it's not
- 27:33only the physical effects in our field,
- 27:35there's a lot of psychosocial
- 27:37impairment that goes along with it.
- 27:39Like if you can't go to a
- 27:41restaurant if you can't go to the
- 27:43school party or the sleepover,
- 27:44then those things really
- 27:45take a tremendous toll.
- 27:47And I was going to show one more video clip.
- 27:49This is from a child who is just talk
- 27:52really briefly about his perception of
- 27:55the impact of his outfit on his family.
- 27:58This was a kid who worked with
- 28:00us with Yara in the program.
- 28:03The
- 28:03stuff that I would want to
- 28:04be able to eat is stuff that
- 28:06we eat a lot in the family.
- 28:07So that I would be like mashed
- 28:09potatoes and chopped liver.
- 28:11I don't like them.
- 28:12But we have them a lot and all
- 28:14kinds of stuff mostly sauces
- 28:16because we have a lot of sauces
- 28:18and just makes her mom frustrated
- 28:19when she has to make part of
- 28:21it without sauce and like split
- 28:24it and the old thing and snowing so
- 28:27it makes me feel bad about it because
- 28:28she asked to work so hard and it's
- 28:30only for me to not have the sauce.
- 28:34And I just feel like I should
- 28:35be making my own meals and she
- 28:37doesn't shouldn't be doing anything
- 28:39'cause it's not her problem.
- 28:42That's a really sweet kid.
- 28:44Obviously feels bad and a little guilty
- 28:46and a little ashamed and frustrated,
- 28:48and not all the children we saw
- 28:50were quite as sweet and sensitive,
- 28:52but I think those feelings of
- 28:54frustration and the impact on the
- 28:56family are certainly a recurring theme.
- 28:59Really, that is to adapt the space
- 29:01protocol to working with these families,
- 29:03keeping those two key emphasis of increasing
- 29:06support and reducing accommodation,
- 29:08but also introducing another component which
- 29:11was reducing the stress surrounding eating,
- 29:14which is so often really big.
- 29:16And as Yara likes to say,
- 29:17the goal in our fit is not this right?
- 29:20We're not trying to make children
- 29:23the most adventurous adventurous
- 29:24eaters in the world who will go
- 29:26right for the seafood paella, it's.
- 29:29We could define the goal more
- 29:31like this little bit more humbly
- 29:33to instill in the child the sense
- 29:34that I can find something to eat,
- 29:36and I'll be OK.
- 29:40And so parents work to reduce the stress,
- 29:42to increase support and to
- 29:43reduce the accommodations.
- 29:44That can be really intense,
- 29:46like not serving leftovers when
- 29:48there are or pureeing all a child's
- 29:51food or spoon feeding it to them,
- 29:54or not eating in front of the child,
- 29:56not going to the restaurant,
- 29:57not taking trips, or like in one case,
- 29:59literally driving to the child
- 30:00school every single day at lunch
- 30:02time to bring them a fresh roll,
- 30:03because that is the one
- 30:05thing that they will eat.
- 30:07So we conducted one clinical trial.
- 30:10Of space for RFID.
- 30:12It's an open trial without
- 30:15randomization in 15 families.
- 30:17All the children had primary RFID diagnosis,
- 30:20most of them around those
- 30:22sensory characteristics,
- 30:23and one goal was to really examine the
- 30:25acceptability and feasibility of it.
- 30:27We had low dropout.
- 30:28We had high satisfaction rates from
- 30:31both the child and the parents,
- 30:34even though the children were
- 30:35not directly in the sessions.
- 30:37And when we look from before to
- 30:39after treatment, you can see that.
- 30:41Following treatment,
- 30:42most of the children no longer met
- 30:44criteria for RFID and among those who did,
- 30:46almost all were rated as only
- 30:49mildly impaired relative to,
- 30:50I think, about 90 would say yeah,
- 30:53almost 90% of children at baseline who were
- 30:57severely impaired by their by their RFID.
- 31:00And we see this also statistically in,
- 31:02you know,
- 31:03comparing before and after around
- 31:06domains of impairment and.
- 31:08Symptom severity and family accommodation.
- 31:13So I'm excited about this.
- 31:14Again, it's early, I'm excited.
- 31:15I'm excited about it,
- 31:16partly because there are so many
- 31:18children who struggle with eating,
- 31:19and I think that this kind of work
- 31:22could be helpful not only for those
- 31:24who meet diagnostic criteria per DSM 5,
- 31:26but also for lots of other children
- 31:29and families that struggle
- 31:30with the issue of picky eating,
- 31:32even if they're not meeting
- 31:33those diagnostic criteria.
- 31:35OK,
- 31:35I'm going to move on to the
- 31:37next domain of expansion.
- 31:39Of space that I wanted to
- 31:41touch on is one that.
- 31:43It causes tremendous frustration
- 31:45and difficulty and quite.
- 31:48Is quite literally painful for a
- 31:50great many children and adolescents,
- 31:53and that is the area of somatic complaints,
- 31:56and specifically here we're focusing
- 31:59on unexplained physical symptoms.
- 32:01And this is also a project that I like a lot,
- 32:04because in part it's an opportunity to
- 32:08collaborate with friends in Pediatrics,
- 32:10like Gene Shapiro and.
- 32:13I'm.
- 32:16I think of all of the three
- 32:17that I'm talking about.
- 32:18This is sort of the the one,
- 32:20the project that's most in its
- 32:21infancy in terms of its development,
- 32:23and so we're really still in
- 32:25the figuring out stage and
- 32:27and collecting the evidence.
- 32:28I'm going to tell you about it,
- 32:29but have that have that in mind as
- 32:32we go through and hear the person
- 32:35to really highlight is Becca Atkin,
- 32:39who it really epitomizes the.
- 32:43Combination of.
- 32:44A skilled clinician and brilliant
- 32:47researcher in a way that is,
- 32:49it's just so fantastic to work
- 32:52with and Becca together
- 32:54with Amanda Calhoun from our soul it
- 32:58integrated Psychiatry program have been
- 33:01working on refining the space approach
- 33:03for working with these parents of kids
- 33:06with these unexplained somatic symptoms,
- 33:08which can include things like headache,
- 33:10fatigue, muscle pains,
- 33:11GI distress, et cetera.
- 33:13And here are also associated with a lot of.
- 33:16Sort of ancillary problems like
- 33:18other mental health conditions and
- 33:20a lot of functional impairment.
- 33:22Use utilization of services,
- 33:24medical services, etc.
- 33:26And there are treatments
- 33:28for physical complaints.
- 33:31Like CBT, biofeedback,
- 33:34we've even done with Wendy here.
- 33:36Work around mindfulness interventions,
- 33:37but one thing that has remained
- 33:39really vague is how to best
- 33:41involve parents in that work.
- 33:42And in fact,
- 33:43other researchers have commented
- 33:45on the difficulty that parents have
- 33:47not accommodating when their child
- 33:48is experiencing these physical
- 33:50problems and so back on Amanda
- 33:52really taken the lead on adapting
- 33:54space and here also we're retaining
- 33:57the core principles of space,
- 33:59but sometimes adding necessary components.
- 34:02Like teaching parents to be savvy
- 34:04consumers of medical resources,
- 34:05or how to advocate for their child's
- 34:08needs or to do risk assessments
- 34:10when you're confronted with
- 34:12these physical issues.
- 34:16And so far we have completed one group
- 34:20out of a multi group treatment study.
- 34:24So this is definitely still on.
- 34:27Ongoing and the group met seven times for
- 34:3290 minutes over zoom for obvious reasons.
- 34:36And one tenet of this group is.
- 34:40That we assume and acknowledge that
- 34:42this child's complaints are real,
- 34:44but they are genuinely suffering
- 34:46and at the same time that some
- 34:49level of function needs to be can
- 34:51be and must be maintained as well,
- 34:54and that aligns well with our definition
- 34:56of support in space as that integration
- 35:00of acceptance together with confidence.
- 35:02And so the the group focuses on increasing
- 35:05the support on reducing accommodations,
- 35:08of which there are many,
- 35:10like constantly picking up the phone when
- 35:12you're at trying to do your work at work,
- 35:14but your child isn't feeling well or
- 35:15picking them up early from school or
- 35:17taking them to the doctor even when the
- 35:19doctor is saying don't bring them in and
- 35:21letting them sleep with you, etc etc.
- 35:22Here again,
- 35:23we wanted to get first some sense of
- 35:26the feasibility and acceptability of it.
- 35:29Satisfaction was rated very high
- 35:30in this group with score of about.
- 35:3230 out of 32.
- 35:34So it's very satisfied parents and
- 35:36I think we had only one drop out
- 35:37and that was a person who said
- 35:39their child wasn't really struggling
- 35:40with somatic symptoms anymore.
- 35:42By the time the group had started.
- 35:44Now I I'm showing here some pre
- 35:46to post comparisons from this
- 35:49group and they look amazing but.
- 35:52These are a handful of people,
- 35:54and so the truth is that statistical testing
- 35:57here from predisposed it's it's very iffy.
- 36:00I'm showing it because I think we can
- 36:02get a sense of like this is encouraging,
- 36:04right?
- 36:05It's promising that we're seeing
- 36:06these improvements,
- 36:07but I wouldn't take it as a real
- 36:09efficacy test when we're talking about
- 36:10one group of you know of individuals,
- 36:13but it is nice to see parents and kids
- 36:16reporting improvement across these
- 36:17domains of quality of life or impairment,
- 36:21or anxiety and depression.
- 36:23And accommodation parenting stress.
- 36:25It's nice to see that improvement.
- 36:26It's nice to see not only the parents
- 36:28but also the children reporting that
- 36:29they are feeling better following it.
- 36:31And I think one parent really summed
- 36:34up best the message and the change that
- 36:36we're trying to bring about through
- 36:38a group like this when she said it's
- 36:40not about waiting for the storm to pass,
- 36:42but learning to dance in the rain,
- 36:44which I think is really nice.
- 36:48OK.
- 36:50Two down and one to go bear with me.
- 36:55Our next our next space expansion takes
- 37:00us out of the domain of childhood
- 37:05and into the world of adult children.
- 37:10The space for failure to launch is.
- 37:14Work with parents of adult children
- 37:16who are really not transitioning into
- 37:19what we might think of as independent,
- 37:22functional adulthood. What does that mean?
- 37:25It means they're over 18 years of age.
- 37:28They're not in high school,
- 37:29but they're not employed, not working.
- 37:32They're not in active education,
- 37:35and I say active because sometimes they
- 37:37may be formally enrolled in some programs,
- 37:40sometimes for years, but without
- 37:42doing anything in that program and.
- 37:43Without any progress toward
- 37:45graduation or accreditation,
- 37:46etc, they're usually living
- 37:48at home with their parents.
- 37:50In some cases living somewhere else,
- 37:51but at the parents expense,
- 37:53and so the parent may have bought
- 37:54or rented a place for them and
- 37:56kind of installed them there.
- 37:57But still covering all of their expenses.
- 38:01And here again,
- 38:02we see this associated with a lot of
- 38:05related issues and problems and impairment,
- 38:08like really disrupted sleep cycles sometimes
- 38:11awake all night and asleep during the day.
- 38:15A lot of social isolation.
- 38:18Really excessive media and
- 38:21online electronic use.
- 38:23And physical and mental health problems
- 38:25like being overweight and blood pressure.
- 38:28And of course anxiety and depression
- 38:30being very common as well.
- 38:32And by the way, I want to emphasize
- 38:34the social isolation piece.
- 38:35It's not only for the adult child
- 38:37that goes for the parents to,
- 38:39you know when.
- 38:41The holiday season comes around
- 38:43and you start getting all of
- 38:45these greeting cards with all the
- 38:47beaming faces looking up at you.
- 38:49And there's an update.
- 38:50You know this kid graduated from
- 38:52that school and that kid started
- 38:55an exciting internship and that one
- 38:57got married and your kid has spent
- 38:59another year doing nothing that's
- 39:02painful and you may retreat into
- 39:04your shell or just going to like
- 39:07the family gathering the dinner,
- 39:09the wedding and fielding questions from.
- 39:11People about like what's your kid up to,
- 39:13what are they doing?
- 39:14And the answer is simply nothing.
- 39:16And so you start not going to those events.
- 39:18Not having guests at your house
- 39:20and it can be extremely isolating
- 39:23for parents as well.
- 39:25And it's it's a really painful
- 39:27thing and one of the things that
- 39:29really stymies progress in this
- 39:30area are some myths that I think
- 39:33surround this phenomenon of adult
- 39:35children who are stuck in this way.
- 39:37Like the idea that this is somehow
- 39:39like a new age millennial problem
- 39:41because of poor work ethic or because
- 39:44of unrealistic expectations from life.
- 39:46Or the idea that these are
- 39:48just overly indulgent parents?
- 39:49Or sometimes the idea that it's
- 39:50parents who don't want their child
- 39:52to proceed on 'cause they want to
- 39:54keep them at home for themselves
- 39:56and not let them grow up,
- 39:57or that the children are just really
- 40:00lazy and that they're enjoying living
- 40:02it up at their parents expense.
- 40:05And you see that I hear this in
- 40:07conversations with people but also
- 40:08portrayed in popular media like
- 40:10in the eponymous failure to launch
- 40:12moving where they're literally
- 40:14clinking martini glasses.
- 40:15And you know, cackling.
- 40:17About how they won't leave their
- 40:19parents house.
- 40:20That does not match at all.
- 40:21The experience that I have with
- 40:24countless families over the years.
- 40:26I II pulled two quotes from an anonymous.
- 40:31Like online forum that I
- 40:33thought captured a little bit
- 40:35better the experience and.
- 40:37So M RK74 says I was just wondering if
- 40:42there's anyone out there who still lives at
- 40:44home because of their anxiety or depression.
- 40:46I hate it. I feel like people are saying
- 40:48what a loser and so on and so forth.
- 40:51And likewise to D88, says you know it
- 40:53makes me feel like a loser and pathetic.
- 40:56That is a lot more.
- 40:57The experience that I encounter.
- 41:00They're not living it up
- 41:02at anybody's expense. Now.
- 41:03I sometimes think of this
- 41:05phenomenon of failure to launch as.
- 41:08Like almost the last really
- 41:11unaddressed problem in mental health,
- 41:13you know it's it's, it's.
- 41:15It's crazy there are so many problems where
- 41:17we don't have good enough answers, right?
- 41:19There's lots of areas of
- 41:20psychopathology where we don't
- 41:22really have good enough answers.
- 41:23But usually it's not for lack of trying.
- 41:27Here we're not even doing the basic
- 41:29work to even start to address this.
- 41:31We have tremendous knowledge gaps.
- 41:35And let me just point to a few of them
- 41:37and tell you about some of the work that
- 41:40we're doing to address it so for example,
- 41:42we don't know the basic
- 41:44prevalence of this problem?
- 41:45How many people fit.
- 41:46This definition, we don't know.
- 41:49Uh, what are the precursors,
- 41:51the predictors and risk factors
- 41:53for not transitioning to adult?
- 41:54You know, functional adulthood.
- 41:56We don't know that,
- 41:57and that means that we can't prevent,
- 41:59right?
- 41:59We can't intervene to try to prevent it.
- 42:02We don't know the trajectories,
- 42:03how chronic or fixed,
- 42:05or malleable or plastic is this,
- 42:07and what can be done.
- 42:09And we are taking very active steps
- 42:11to try to address all of those here.
- 42:13I really want to emphasize the work of
- 42:16another amazing postdoc or a burger.
- 42:19Who with the very generous support
- 42:21of another dear person,
- 42:22we were able to bring onto the team
- 42:24and he has taken the lead on a lot
- 42:26of this and really accomplished a
- 42:28tremendous amount for one year that
- 42:30he's been working in the program so.
- 42:32What are we doing to address
- 42:34the prevalence problem?
- 42:34Well,
- 42:35even as we speak a national a
- 42:38nationally representative survey is
- 42:40going out across the country to 10s
- 42:43of thousands of people to try with.
- 42:45Working with Ipsos Big Survey
- 42:48company to try to ascertain how
- 42:50many people actually have somebody
- 42:52like this in their lives.
- 42:54This is really the first large scale
- 42:58epidemiological attempt to even,
- 43:00you know, gauge the prevalence.
- 43:03And.
- 43:05For those responders who do indicate that
- 43:07there somebody for them that matches that,
- 43:10then will also get other information
- 43:12like the car let's the economic impact,
- 43:15the burden, etc.
- 43:16So I think that's going to
- 43:17teach us a lot and.
- 43:20Hopefully also provide.
- 43:22Impetus to for more research in the area,
- 43:25which is very clearly,
- 43:27sorely needed and we will see,
- 43:29and I'll share next time what
- 43:30the results of the survey are.
- 43:32But if our best guesses based on
- 43:33smaller studies a lot in other
- 43:35countries are any indication,
- 43:37we're talking about millions of
- 43:38people and literally 10s of billions
- 43:40of dollars every year in lost
- 43:43productivity, tax revenue, etc.
- 43:44Now, where is also trying to
- 43:47address those precursor questions
- 43:50by mining data from other?
- 43:53Surveys that have been administered
- 43:55for over for two cohorts over
- 43:57multiple years and long time spans.
- 43:59For example, the add health survey
- 44:01that a lot of you may be familiar with.
- 44:03That's the adolescent to Adult Health survey,
- 44:06which is administered all the
- 44:08way from adolescence into really
- 44:10mid adulthood at this point.
- 44:12To thousands of people,
- 44:13and it wasn't designed to
- 44:15identify failure to launch,
- 44:17but we can make some tentative guesses
- 44:19about people that might be meeting
- 44:21that criteria based on indicators
- 44:23like their employment and place
- 44:25of residence and education, etc.
- 44:26And when we do,
- 44:28we can then go back and see what
- 44:30differentiated them from their
- 44:31peers when they were adolescence,
- 44:33and the answer seems to be quite a bit.
- 44:37I know this is too much to take
- 44:39in on a slide, but.
- 44:41The real take home here is that
- 44:43we're seeing really statistically
- 44:45significant differences between those
- 44:47individuals who later are likely
- 44:49failure to launch cases and their
- 44:51peers in adolescence across many domains,
- 44:54like the behavior like school absences,
- 44:57media consumption, mental health,
- 44:59like depression, suicidality,
- 45:01social functioning,
- 45:01how many friends do they have?
- 45:03If they ever had a boyfriend or girlfriend,
- 45:05how well did a live interview or think
- 45:07they presented themselves academic
- 45:09things like learning problems and even.
- 45:12Physical things like their
- 45:13pubertal status or their height,
- 45:15and so again we're going to
- 45:17need to replicate a lot of this,
- 45:19but this is giving clues of the
- 45:21kinds of things that might help to
- 45:22intervene when people are at risk
- 45:24for not making that transition
- 45:25rather than assuming that it will go
- 45:28smoothly and sort of leaving families
- 45:30to pick up the pieces when it does not.
- 45:32And we can also use that data
- 45:35to look at trajectories,
- 45:38and so for example,
- 45:39here we can see that somebody who at age
- 45:4318 to 24 in that wave of the survey was
- 45:46like a likely failure to launch case.
- 45:49Still has a two times as likely
- 45:52chance of not living independently,
- 45:55even six or 15 years later,
- 45:58or somebody at age 25 who may
- 46:01have failure to launch as a four
- 46:03times greater chance of still not
- 46:06living independently nine years
- 46:07later and have not working.
- 46:09And so we're seeing that this
- 46:10is a really fixed problem.
- 46:11It speaks to the risks of settling
- 46:14into that failure to launch
- 46:15situation where years can just go
- 46:17by so quickly without any change.
- 46:20And it's actually one reason,
- 46:21I think, that I unlike some others,
- 46:24I don't think of this as a
- 46:25young adult problem.
- 46:26It's really not a young adult problem.
- 46:27I'd start there,
- 46:29but there's not an expiration date.
- 46:31If nothing is done,
- 46:33which leads us to the what
- 46:35can be done question.
- 46:37And here we are again conducting
- 46:39clinical trial research is
- 46:41a randomized controlled trial
- 46:42with a wait list control of
- 46:44space for failure to launch.
- 46:46We're doing it over zoom 13 to
- 46:4820 sessions with the families.
- 46:50This individual, not group,
- 46:52and the study is actually still
- 46:55ongoing and so all I will say
- 46:57is a very very small sneak
- 46:59peek at what we were seeing.
- 47:01So for example of 11 cases will
- 47:04already completed treatment.
- 47:0865% don't meet our death or
- 47:10entry definition of failure to
- 47:12launch by the end of treatment,
- 47:14which is really amazing.
- 47:16These are hard, hard,
- 47:18hard cases to work to to work with.
- 47:20It really difficult.
- 47:21But when you have a person who hasn't left
- 47:25their room in years hasn't gone to work,
- 47:27doesn't have anything really happening and
- 47:29they are able to start living their lives,
- 47:32it's just worth it.
- 47:33And what does it mean to go from
- 47:35having failure to launch to not?
- 47:37But if you compare people who still
- 47:39have failure to launch those who don't,
- 47:42we see really significant
- 47:43differences in adaptive behavior.
- 47:45And not surprisingly for the parents,
- 47:48because like a significant
- 47:50differences in accommodation.
- 47:51So we are almost almost almost out of time,
- 47:54but I wanted to leave you with
- 47:56one more video and this is I'm
- 47:59saying to the gods of video to
- 48:01stop the recording for this piece.
- 48:04Or we'll cut it after, well,
- 48:05cut it after.
- 48:06OK, so because I have permission to show
- 48:09you this video but not to send it beyond.
- 48:11And so I'm going to play this.
- 48:13These were just here from a
- 48:15couple who struggled with their
- 48:17son for a really long time.
- 48:18They weren't in this study.
- 48:20They worked with me though
- 48:21using the same approach and I
- 48:24think it speaks for itself.
- 48:25Some.
- 48:29That is essentially the things
- 48:31that I wanted to cover today.
- 48:32There's other projects that are
- 48:33even earlier in development.
- 48:34Too early to talk about,
- 48:35like and so you can look at the slide.
- 48:38I do, though I also want to say of
- 48:41course thank you to the amazing team
- 48:44too when they work closely with me on.
- 48:47Almost everything that we've
- 48:48talked about to the collaborators,
- 48:50to our intrepid lab manager,
- 48:52grace the clinicians and everybody.
- 48:56And of course,
- 48:57thank you very much to each
- 48:59and everyone of you as well.
- 49:07If you wanna take some questions and
- 49:10I'm sure that zoom world you know
- 49:12whoever stays around, I'm sure that
- 49:13there's going to be some questions.
- 49:15Hold on one second. However long
- 49:19they want to stay in three hours.
- 49:22OK, so any any questions Eli is in
- 49:25the house and taking questions.
- 49:27I know because of techno we
- 49:30were a little bit late but.
- 49:32Julie, start us off anyone start us off Eli.
- 49:42Ellie, I think you're particularly good at.
- 49:47Helping parents appreciate that
- 49:49they are part of the solution,
- 49:52but they are not to blame.
- 49:54They are not the problem.
- 49:57Actually, earlier in my career that that
- 49:59was that was a tough balance for me.
- 50:02Could you talk a little
- 50:05bit about that? That art?
- 50:15OK, well first of all, thank you.
- 50:17That's a nice compliment, you know.
- 50:21I think we we all.
- 50:25Represent a field with a very rich history
- 50:28of blaming parents for everything.
- 50:30Right, we blame parents fears gets a
- 50:32free neon schizophrenic mothers casket.
- 50:34Sabrina and refrigerator mothers cause
- 50:38autism and time and again empirical
- 50:41research just fails to support that.
- 50:44And so I think that.
- 50:47We don't need to make a false leap from.
- 50:51We can help you can help your
- 50:53child to overcome a problem too.
- 50:55You need to be you know accused.
- 50:57For the fact that they have the
- 50:59problem and my experience is that
- 51:01when parents are get it that way.
- 51:05It's so gratifying and so empowering
- 51:07to be able to help to help
- 51:09your child overcome a problem.
- 51:11Like, why would you only want to help
- 51:12your kid with problems that you cost,
- 51:14but it doesn't make sense, right?
- 51:16We don't we never think that way,
- 51:18and I think that's true here also.
- 51:21I don't assume that I'm a
- 51:23better parent than my patients.
- 51:25I see so many patients that
- 51:26I work with and I think, WOW,
- 51:28there's such an amazing parents.
- 51:30Amazing mom are amazing that I wish I
- 51:32was more like that in my own parenting.
- 51:34In fact,
- 51:35that we may be here to work on a
- 51:37specific issue around your child
- 51:38anxiety where we have some specific
- 51:40knowledge that you can apply that.
- 51:42That's great,
- 51:44but.
- 51:45I think there's you know it's a
- 51:46little seductive to fall into the
- 51:48I'm doing the parent training,
- 51:50so I must be better than you at at this.
- 51:52And frankly,
- 51:53I think that's kind of BS and bogus.
- 51:55I think parents that I work with pick up
- 51:57on the fact that I don't feel that way.
- 51:59'cause I genuinely don't and
- 52:00that makes it easier as well.
- 52:06My kids will confirm I'm not.
- 52:13I cancelled
- 52:16how do I know?
- 52:21The chat. The chat.
- 52:25Well, probably people are
- 52:26aware that the time is fast
- 52:28and they have other things too.
- 52:31Still there where I was
- 52:32on mute the whole time. No
- 52:34one else has another question.
- 52:36I wonder if you ever will put your
- 52:41brilliant theories about school
- 52:44avoidance into a more manualized form,
- 52:49especially addressing the
- 52:50secondary gain and and parent
- 52:53accommodation that often happens.
- 52:55Or are there plans for that?
- 53:03Yeah, uh, you know, school refusal.
- 53:06It's such a. It's such a it's such a
- 53:08stubborn kind of problem to overcome
- 53:11to be so stuck takes a lot of energy
- 53:13and a lot of momentum to overcome
- 53:16the inertia of school refusal and to
- 53:18get something moving there when it
- 53:20can be stuck for a really long time.
- 53:22There are plans for that actually
- 53:25were in discussion with.
- 53:27Well, yes, I think there are plans
- 53:29for that and I'm hoping to be
- 53:31able to share more about it.
- 53:32In the meantime,
- 53:33I made one YouTube video on
- 53:34overcoming school refusal so
- 53:35people can check that out.
- 53:40Alright.
- 53:42You wanna close it?
- 53:45Well, I would just like to thank me
- 53:47for just really an amazing presentation
- 53:49in light of all of the antigenic
- 53:52stimuli that you're experiencing.
- 53:54So thank you once again and Portugal.