Social and Affective Neuroscience of Autism Lab
Sana Lab Newsletter
From the Director
We are pleased to bring you the 8th issue of our Newsletter sharing events from a very busy and exciting 2023. We continue seeing families for both clinical and research visits. This edition includes:
- Out in the Community
- Science of Autism Series (Zoom) - Southern CT State University
- Ideas for supporting shy toddlers
As always, we are indebted to all of you for your continued interest and engagement around our research, clinical, and education missions.
We wish you all joyful and healthy holidays.
Out in the Community
Science of Autism Series
Featured Articles
Nurturing growth: Ideas for supporting child development in shy toddlers by Chelsea Morgan, Psy. D.
Our infants and toddler are unique little ones, each with their own personality, likes and dislikes, and a whole range of special characteristics. While some toddlers are naturally outgoing and adventurous, others exhibit a quieter, more inhibited temperament. An inhibited temperament can be characterized by shyness, cautiousness, and a slower-to-warm-up attitude. While this temperament is perfectly typical, it can be helpful for parents and caregivers to consider how to support these toddlers in their development journey.
1. Acceptance and understanding – You might relate to your more reserved toddler because you too share similar traits, or perhaps you are totally the opposite. Either way, it's helpful to recognize that shyness and caution are simply value-neutral personality traits, and there's no need for your toddler to be any other way. Accepting your child for who they are serves as the foundation for providing them with the support they may need.
2. Create a safe environment – Little ones with an inhibited temperament often thrive in familiar and secure environments. To help your child feel safe and comfortable at home, try to maintain a consistent (yet flexible!) routine. For example, after a routine is established (e.g., bedtime), build flexibility into the routine (e.g., sometimes one caregiver does the routine and other times the other caregiver does it). Also try to help your toddler feel they have a dedicated space where they can explore and play without feeling overwhelmed.
3. Gradual exposure to new experiences - While shyness and caution are natural, it's important to help your toddler gradually adapt to new experiences. Begin with small steps and slowly increase the level of exposure to novel situations. For example, if your child is wary of meeting new people, start with one-on-one playdates with a trusted friend.
4. Encourage social interaction - Social skills are a crucial aspect of child development. Encourage your toddler to interact with others by arranging playdates with children of a similar age or enrolling them in structured group activities. It is important to avoid putting excessive pressure on your child. Let them socialize at their own pace and comfort level.
5. Be a role model - Children often learn by observing their parents and caregivers. Demonstrate healthy social interactions and coping mechanisms for managing shyness and caution. Your child will pick up on your behavior and may adopt some of your strategies for handling social situations.
6. Effective communication – It is never too early to use honest communication with your toddler. Talk to them about their feelings and experiences. Use age-appropriate language to help them express their emotions. Show empathy and offer reassurance when they face challenges. Try to keep communication light and humorous when possible.
7. Praise and encouragement - Positive reinforcement is a powerful tool in supporting child development. Praise your toddler for their efforts and small accomplishments. Try to be specific, for example “You did a great job saying hello to the little girl we just met at the park!” Celebrate their successes, no matter how minor they may seem. Encouragement can boost your child’s self-esteem and motivate them to explore new experiences.
Parenting a toddler with an inhibited temperament can be both rewarding and challenging. It's essential to remember that shyness and caution are not negative traits; they are part of what makes your toddler unique. By providing a supportive and understanding environment, gradually exposing them to new experiences, and fostering positive social interactions, you can help your child flourish and develop the skills they need to navigate the world with confidence. Remember, your child's development is a journey, and your love and guidance are the key elements in helping your child reach their full potential.
Current Studies
We are currently recruiting newborns/infants and young children.