Poetry & the Healing Professions
November 23, 2021Information
The second session in this two part event was a reading and remarks from Jubi followed by a panel discussion on identity, intersectionality and healing through poetry.
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- 00:00Steve
- 00:04thank you for recording Cayetana.
- 00:06I'm bookmarking by saying if you
- 00:08weren't here you missed some prime
- 00:10content for subscribers only. Uhm?
- 00:12The next poem I'm not actually going to
- 00:15do an introduction or a big story about.
- 00:18I wrote it during the pandemic
- 00:20and I think when you hear it,
- 00:22some of that inspiration will come through.
- 00:23It is simply called breath.
- 00:29Strange to think I'd not thought
- 00:32much before now about its drum beat.
- 00:36How breath tickles the tip of my nose?
- 00:40How breath ushers in
- 00:42memories of all the pray,
- 00:44the scorch prayers of consumed.
- 00:48Her breath renders every bit of shredded
- 00:52flesh stuck between the gaps in my history.
- 00:57Breaths incendiary wetness.
- 00:59How little droplets of breath,
- 01:02cloud and mist and kettle whistle in
- 01:05the cold, and sometimes the heat.
- 01:07How breath drenches my upper
- 01:09lip when I wear my mask,
- 01:11and it's that the mask that's the reckoning,
- 01:15the barrier between me and the world
- 01:20consuming my expired improvisations.
- 01:24Once Upon a time, I thought This is why
- 01:26they rail against wearing their truth.
- 01:29On their faces, their masks, that is.
- 01:34It's nothing about them wanting to be seen.
- 01:38As if our gaze was met.
- 01:41Was matter Oh no.
- 01:43So much lighter than breath that weight.
- 01:47My own ignorance is a cloak
- 01:50I found in a thrift shop.
- 01:53My people have long known that
- 01:56particular structures.
- 01:57I mean structures of breath.
- 02:01They've studied breath under a microscope,
- 02:04cut it into splice size,
- 02:06slivers with a scalpel,
- 02:08spread it thick over them dared to blanket
- 02:12themselves in it in the grips of ships.
- 02:15It's typical to call where they laid us end
- 02:19to end to the very last of hours the hold.
- 02:24But I worry,
- 02:25you'll hear that as embrace
- 02:27and that would be a blasphemy.
- 02:33So. That came out of the pandemic.
- 02:38Actually, I didn't write anything
- 02:40from April to October of 2020.
- 02:45Or at the beginning of May.
- 02:46Honestly, let's just let's call it.
- 02:48I didn't read anything from George
- 02:51Floyd until about the about the
- 02:53week before the election of 2020.
- 02:55The fall elections and I was just
- 02:57in a state where I couldn't write.
- 02:59Nothing was coming.
- 03:00I didn't try to force it.
- 03:02I tried to feed my creative self other ways.
- 03:05I listened to music.
- 03:06I watched movies,
- 03:07but I couldn't write and I realized.
- 03:10At some point,
- 03:11the week before the election that whatever
- 03:13the outcome of that election was,
- 03:15and I was not at all clear what it would be.
- 03:19That I was going to need to persevere,
- 03:20'cause that's what my people,
- 03:22my ancestors, my current people
- 03:24in my future people needed me to
- 03:26do and somehow that just loosed a
- 03:29whole lot of stuff and breath is
- 03:32one of the very first poems I wrote
- 03:35after I finally was able to read
- 03:38again after six or seven months.
- 03:40The next poem is called Machete,
- 03:43and it doesn't really need.
- 03:44I don't think introduction, so here.
- 03:48For those of you who feel it is machete.
- 03:53Listen, listen my loves.
- 03:56The path toward liberation.
- 03:59It's thick with Bramble.
- 04:02It will need to be cleared,
- 04:04and that's long labor and based
- 04:06on our history, who we've been,
- 04:08who can blame us for not
- 04:11wanting to wear a yoke?
- 04:12To hit our purpose to apply.
- 04:15Still, someone's got to do the work
- 04:19and it might as well be the poets.
- 04:22So slide y'all into your long
- 04:25long sleeves and your thigh high
- 04:28boots and grab you a machete.
- 04:31At first it'll feel eel to you that tool,
- 04:35it'll wriggle out your hands
- 04:37like an ornery child,
- 04:39but I promise you you'll hit the gist of it.
- 04:43I've seen a 6 year old scamper up the
- 04:45full sky height of a palm tree and
- 04:48freeing herself from gravity with only
- 04:51the muscles of her thighs claim a
- 04:53clutch of coconuts with a single whack.
- 04:57One for her trouble to nurse her thirst.
- 05:00The rest to market to ********* market.
- 05:05The marcelli's worst purpose
- 05:07is to clear the path.
- 05:09You'll need a torch to to burn away
- 05:12the underbrush and thus matches,
- 05:14and next an accelerant.
- 05:17Your rage will do just fine.
- 05:22As you clamber along,
- 05:23clearing your way toward birth mind,
- 05:26you don't trip over the helter skeletons
- 05:29of those who raged before you.
- 05:32And resist the urge to stick a finger
- 05:34where it don't belong, like an eye socket.
- 05:38You know damn well it's disrespectful.
- 05:42What you do when you stumble upon
- 05:44an ancestor is, you say,
- 05:45not a prayer, never a prayer.
- 05:49A simple ashei.
- 05:51Then you take a sip of your coconut
- 05:53water right from the source.
- 05:55In the manner of a toast.
- 05:57Tuck their blessing under the
- 05:59brim of your belongings.
- 06:01Them be about it.
- 06:02Move on,
- 06:03knife your way through the noise that
- 06:06angle head straight for the capital.
- 06:09The source of all that stench?
- 06:11What's been wooing you all along?
- 06:15Burn it, don't think, don't blink,
- 06:18don't bluster, burn it all.
- 06:22Tinder Tinder for your arms?
- 06:27Now you're almost free.
- 06:31What comes next is beyond the event horizon.
- 06:36Not unknown though unknown to you.
- 06:40Between you and that moment is doubt.
- 06:43There's always going to be some simple,
- 06:45some whimper, or slacking at the last gas.
- 06:49Don't want to grab your coconut?
- 06:52Use the water to douse the flames.
- 06:56No worries.
- 06:58What you'll need to do?
- 07:00Is grab your machete.
- 07:01And ***** *** their hands.
- 07:07So that's that poem.
- 07:08I don't explain that poem.
- 07:10I think that's poem speaks for itself,
- 07:11although I'm happy to answer questions
- 07:12about that form and talk about it.
- 07:17Actually, I love that poem in many,
- 07:18many ways. It's weird when
- 07:20you're that into your own work,
- 07:21but I was so proud of myself
- 07:22the day I finished that poem,
- 07:24and it might get a little more changing.
- 07:25But I'm pretty good with it.
- 07:28Here's another poem I love.
- 07:30This one shifts gears a little bit
- 07:33I heard or read somewhere about a
- 07:37year ago that there was a universe in
- 07:40which maybe Frida Kahlo and Josephine
- 07:42Baker had met in their lifetimes.
- 07:45And then I came across a picture
- 07:47where I'm guessing they were
- 07:48both somewhere in their mid 40s.
- 07:51Probably not too long before
- 07:53Frida Kahlo left us,
- 07:55but there was a picture of
- 07:56them talking to each other,
- 07:57and I just thought this is wonderful.
- 08:00So what I did with that was turning
- 08:02into a poem called Queer Fanfiction,
- 08:05Frieda and Josephine at La Casa Azul.
- 08:12Josephine slays for days lays the rhythmic
- 08:17glyph of her across the cool saltiel floor
- 08:22coaxes her toes into a perfect on point.
- 08:27Tux, the world behind her eyes,
- 08:30says cast me, however, you will.
- 08:35Freda forgets every fickle bit of
- 08:38man or metal that ever pierced her.
- 08:41Drops to her brittle knees.
- 08:45Her hands too fall unable to resist the
- 08:50pull of gravity to Josephine's errant belly.
- 08:55Their predate racist circle
- 08:58after flawless circle.
- 09:00Josephine Giggles forgets to
- 09:03taught like she's expected to.
- 09:06Her breath expands,
- 09:08rises rises to meet the harden tips
- 09:12of Frieda's paint stained fingers.
- 09:17I've never met a canvas that
- 09:20would not respond to touch.
- 09:23Frieder whispers Josephine begins to sing.
- 09:29Wanting you is my offense.
- 09:34You have all the evidence.
- 09:38No wait, wait for you to send to me.
- 09:44Debt. Frida thinks death by 1000 Blisses.
- 09:51Frieda reads like a book to Josephine.
- 09:55Who lifts a single finger?
- 09:57Says everything she needs
- 10:00to with a hook. Come.
- 10:06So I have two more poems for you, this one.
- 10:11Is a bit along the lines of machete,
- 10:14although maybe a little dumb.
- 10:17More intense in some ways to me and the
- 10:20last one is excessively sentimental, which,
- 10:22as I promised Alice will come with a story.
- 10:26So I'm going to do the opposite
- 10:29of the legend Teen attorney.
- 10:32I'm gonna start hard in my last two
- 10:35columns and then easier I think.
- 10:37So this poem. It's called addendum.
- 10:43And abbreviated list of the universe
- 10:46of **** I continue to fail to learn.
- 10:50How to say I'm sorry and let the words rust.
- 10:54Hang there in the thinnest air.
- 10:56Will the loft only by their in description.
- 11:01The word in any language for the moment when
- 11:03you fall in love with someone you've never,
- 11:06ever met face to funny face.
- 11:10How to bare my belly to the sun in
- 11:13full view of everyone I say I love.
- 11:16How to say I love you while pouring
- 11:19cornflakes into a chipped ceramic bowl
- 11:21ringed with fading daisies, blue and
- 11:24yellow and freed of bees and meaning.
- 11:27How to look West toward the sinking day.
- 11:31How to expose my wedded cheek to
- 11:34anyone who wants to wound me further.
- 11:37Have not to feel the bullets.
- 11:39How not to feel the bullets,
- 11:41how to pronounce my name without
- 11:42a knee on my neck.
- 11:44How not to flee the bullets?
- 11:47How green can be a minted thing that
- 11:51swallows my toes or saddles my back
- 11:55depending on the con. How to say?
- 11:59No more how to say no more.
- 12:02How to point my gun right at the right
- 12:05that the right at the right and shoot.
- 12:08How to say no? More.
- 12:14How to fly? How to fly high?
- 12:18How to rise above?
- 12:21How to heal?
- 12:24How to heal?
- 12:27How to heal?
- 12:32So that's that poem. End.
- 12:36So we come to my last poem and I'm going
- 12:39to tell you the story before I read it.
- 12:42Uhm? My mother. Like my husband,
- 12:47better than she likes me
- 12:48and don't feel sorry for me.
- 12:49I'm very pleased with this.
- 12:50I am a man of not the most patience and
- 12:52I've heard all of my mother stories.
- 12:54I love her but I've heard
- 12:56all her stories before.
- 12:57My mother can tell my husband my stories
- 12:59and he will set up with her till two
- 13:01or three AM when they're visiting and
- 13:02drink cognac together and she will
- 13:04tell him every story about me in her life.
- 13:06He may know more about
- 13:09her now than I do which.
- 13:12Might be valuable to me at some point,
- 13:14so I am literally OK with all of this.
- 13:17Here's the story.
- 13:20In 2014 we went to Barbados,
- 13:22which is where my parents
- 13:24are from to visit me,
- 13:25my mother and my husband, my mother.
- 13:28Previous to that time had been that mother
- 13:31of a generation that felt I get it.
- 13:34You are gay.
- 13:35This is your husband.
- 13:36I love him, I love you but we don't need
- 13:38to have this conversation loudly, do we?
- 13:41We don't need to share this with the world,
- 13:43or at least my world, do we?
- 13:45And so my mother and I had that
- 13:47they thought I love you, mom,
- 13:49I don't need for people to know.
- 13:50This in your world,
- 13:51if they ask me straight questions,
- 13:53I'm not gonna lie,
- 13:54but they also don't need to broadcast
- 13:56this if you are more comfortable with
- 13:58your people not knowing me in that way.
- 14:00I live with it.
- 14:01I'm gonna go live my life regardless.
- 14:03So that was our understanding.
- 14:05So one night we had rented
- 14:07an apartment together.
- 14:08A two bedroom apartment.
- 14:10My mother had a cousin coming by and.
- 14:13This cousin I should say,
- 14:15is evangelical in the sense of
- 14:18capital E capital van Jellicle.
- 14:20So that cousin was coming by because it,
- 14:22and so when they got there my
- 14:24mother said by way of introduction.
- 14:27This is my son Judy 'cause I had
- 14:29never met this cousin and this
- 14:31is his friend Paolo.
- 14:33Neither Paulo nor I had an issue with this.
- 14:36We really didn't because we understood.
- 14:38We come from that generation.
- 14:40We make allowances for our parents.
- 14:42I don't need or I didn't think
- 14:44I needed my mother to change at
- 14:46that late date in my life.
- 14:50We go to our room 'cause our room
- 14:52is where the air conditioning is,
- 14:53and so we're chilling in our room.
- 14:56Eventually this cousin will leave and
- 14:57maybe we'll go hang out with our mother.
- 14:59We're not concerned when there's a knock on
- 15:01the door and my mother says to me. And Paolo,
- 15:04can you two come out here for a minute?
- 15:07And so we come out.
- 15:09There is the President sitting there,
- 15:10and my mother says to the cousin,
- 15:12I'm sorry I wasn't clear with you.
- 15:16This is. My son's husband Paolo.
- 15:21And. The evangelical cousin got the
- 15:23hugest grin that one can imagine,
- 15:26and I swear to you what I thought she was
- 15:29thinking at the moment was I can't wait.
- 15:31To get back and tell everybody
- 15:34this good gossip I just got that's
- 15:36gonna change the world this night.
- 15:39Uhm and Paolo and I were both like,
- 15:42OK, this is.
- 15:44A moment and we didn't know
- 15:46what to do with it,
- 15:48and so we were like OK and we went back
- 15:50to our room after the cousin left.
- 15:51She came and got us and
- 15:53told us and so we were like.
- 15:55You know you didn't feel then you
- 15:56didn't need to feel the need to do that.
- 15:59Nobody asked you to do that work
- 16:00if you wanted to do, that's fine,
- 16:02but we didn't feel the need to do it.
- 16:04And my mother said.
- 16:07I felt the need to do it because I need
- 16:10you to know A and she started Apollo,
- 16:12not me.
- 16:12She's saying I need,
- 16:13you know a that I love you and be
- 16:15your part of my family and I was so
- 16:18worried that the way I introduced you
- 16:20made you feel like you didn't know that.
- 16:22It's hard for me to talk with strings
- 16:24up getting tripped up because
- 16:26I think it's a testament to how
- 16:28people can change and how people
- 16:29can be boosted by other people.
- 16:31And I say all this to say the poem
- 16:33is not about that relationship.
- 16:35The poem is about how I not speaking
- 16:40Spanish with Paolo's mother,
- 16:42who doesn't speak English.
- 16:44Could maybe try to approximate
- 16:47that relationship?
- 16:49So by way of conclusion,
- 16:50I've been going a while.
- 16:51This is the last poem it is
- 16:53called Como amarar to suegra.
- 16:55Or how to love your mother in
- 16:58law and is dedicated to power.
- 17:01One, visit her on her birthday.
- 17:04Address the birthday card to Mama.
- 17:07Signing Camilla Brussels windmill
- 17:09basis he Amor infinito in your best
- 17:13googled Spanish signed the card in your hand,
- 17:15writing from both you and her child.
- 17:18Put her child's name first.
- 17:21Two offered to help her prepare dinner.
- 17:25Know that however you need dough
- 17:27or trap onions,
- 17:28or seizing the carnitas for the
- 17:30tamales will be a blast for me
- 17:32to a chef of her skills.
- 17:33Except whatever correction she's willing
- 17:36to offer with spoonfuls of grace.
- 17:393.
- 17:39Let her catch you,
- 17:41stealing a taste of whatever
- 17:43she's cooking before it's ready
- 17:45right from the pop.
- 17:46Be unapologetic when she does say that her,
- 17:49but it smells so good, Mama.
- 17:51Fix your lips the pout when she
- 17:54plays at swatting your hand away.
- 17:574. At dinner, let her catch you,
- 18:00plucking a piece of lint from her
- 18:03child's shirt or brushing a rogue
- 18:06care from her child's cheek. 5.
- 18:09After dinner offered to do the
- 18:12dishes say this way you two will
- 18:15have some time to yourselves.
- 18:18Six after dishes offered to drive
- 18:20everyone into town for a lot to offer my
- 18:23mind your arm as you escort her to the car.
- 18:26Insist that she ride shotgun.
- 18:30Seven hold her child's hand as the
- 18:32two of you decide whether they share
- 18:36one or two scoops of pistachio.
- 18:38Or rum Raisin.
- 18:418.
- 18:43Laugh is Mama tells the story
- 18:45of how her child once ran away
- 18:47from home because she refused to
- 18:49serve ice cream for dinner.
- 18:51No matter how many times you've
- 18:54heard this story before. 9.
- 18:57When it's time to say goodbye,
- 19:00leading and close kiss my mind the cheek
- 19:03and say to her the only thing I love
- 19:06more than your son is your tamales.
- 19:09Watch her giggle like she did back
- 19:11when she wore her hair in pigtails,
- 19:13no matter how many times
- 19:16she's heard this before.
- 19:1810 melt when Mama touches your
- 19:20cheek and says in her best.
- 19:22Practice English.
- 19:23I only make my special birthday
- 19:26tamales for two people,
- 19:28my son and the man he married.
- 19:31Melt no matter how many times
- 19:35you've heard this before.
- 19:37Thank you all so much for listening.
- 19:42Cayetana back to you.
- 19:50Thank you. Uhm?
- 19:56I've heard in other recordings, UM, you did
- 20:02some of these poems, UM?
- 20:05But it's always a treat to
- 20:07hear it directly from the poet.
- 20:10Come and and live like this, so I.
- 20:17Really enjoyed this, UM,
- 20:20so I'm going to collect myself
- 20:24by bringing on our panel.
- 20:27Uhm so if a Cindy's already
- 20:30got her camera on.
- 20:32So if Brianna and Waleed
- 20:34could turn theirs on,
- 20:35let me make that possible now.
- 20:43OK. So let me start with.
- 20:47I'll introduce the panelists.
- 20:49Semi Cousteau is professor of psychiatry,
- 20:51deputy chair for Diversity Equity inclusion
- 20:54in Psychiatry and Director Program
- 20:57Evaluation and Child Trauma Research
- 20:59Center at the Consultation Center.
- 21:01In addition, she is as some of you,
- 21:04the very beginning no.
- 21:05The main reason that we
- 21:07have to be here now, but.
- 21:08I think the fun fact and maybe Cindy
- 21:11will talk about this is they went to
- 21:14college together and while he can't,
- 21:17who's on now?
- 21:18Is a fourth year Med student and
- 21:20member of the management team for
- 21:22the Dean's Advisory Council on.
- 21:24Sorry, I'm LGBTQ.
- 21:25I plus affairs and someone I've had the
- 21:28pleasure of working with for four years now,
- 21:31so it's been terrific.
- 21:35Uhm, sorry.
- 21:36I think we've picked up
- 21:38somebody's microphone.
- 21:41Let me leave that person.
- 21:52No, I think they may be gone.
- 21:54OK, I'm sorry about that
- 21:56and Brianna Davis, Reyes,
- 21:59postdoc fellow, neuro scientist,
- 22:01and is one of the cofounders of
- 22:03the Yale Black Postdoc Association.
- 22:06I think I will stop there
- 22:08with the introductions, but I
- 22:12can't turn my camera on,
- 22:13and I'm OK with that,
- 22:15but I just want to let you know,
- 22:16in case you wanted me to have it on
- 22:18it's.
- 22:20Pregnant right now.
- 22:22Here we go. OK OK hi hello. Uhm, so I'm
- 22:28going to start with Cindy and it's.
- 22:31It's not necessarily a question
- 22:32specifically about the poetry,
- 22:34but feel free to jump into that.
- 22:36As I mentioned,
- 22:37Cindy was the person who came to myself
- 22:40and a couple of others and said, hey,
- 22:44I have this really terrific person.
- 22:46Might you think about bringing
- 22:49him to campus to speak?
- 22:51So I just kind of wanted to ask you,
- 22:53Cindy, if you can comment on
- 22:55sort of what you were thinking.
- 22:57Uhm, and you know how?
- 23:00How did this turn out?
- 23:01Did we do a good job?
- 23:02This is what you envisioned.
- 23:04It's absolutely a wonderful job
- 23:06and it's just great to see Judy.
- 23:09Thank you so much for being here.
- 23:11But UM, as Cayetana mentioned,
- 23:14I I have known Judy for
- 23:16a long time in college.
- 23:18We won't say how many years ago that was up,
- 23:20but I knew him then and I guess
- 23:23just kept up on social media.
- 23:26And so I knew that he was a writer
- 23:29and a poet, just from things that he
- 23:32would post awards he had gotten and.
- 23:34And workshops that he would
- 23:36participate in or had gotten
- 23:38invited to very prestigious things,
- 23:40but I hadn't really listened
- 23:43to his work necessarily.
- 23:45UM, and then I saw him recently on PBS.
- 23:49They have a segment called
- 23:52Brief but spectacular, UM,
- 23:54and I was just really moved
- 23:58by his work and his story.
- 24:02There was a poem that he read called,
- 24:04I believe it's called.
- 24:07Transubstantiation and just.
- 24:10The imagery UM from ancestors
- 24:13and slavery and resiliency and
- 24:17just really moved by notions and
- 24:22definitions of vulnerability and.
- 24:27I just was really moved by it.
- 24:30I'm a psychologist.
- 24:31We talked about vulnerability all the time,
- 24:33but the way that he talked about it
- 24:35up taking the risk of being known and
- 24:38hopefully they'll be loved regardless,
- 24:41was just a whole new perspective
- 24:44for me as a mental health provider
- 24:46and a research or around people's
- 24:48health and well being.
- 24:50And I just thought it was really
- 24:52powerful piece and just really moved me.
- 24:56And also because of.
- 24:58Issues of intersectionality and
- 25:00and we talk about that here a
- 25:02lot and I'm not sure that we.
- 25:05Embody that, in terms of really,
- 25:08what does it mean?
- 25:09What does it look like?
- 25:10Who's voices are we
- 25:12hearing and can hear from?
- 25:14And so I thought it was just a
- 25:17wonderful opportunity to hear
- 25:19from someone who moved me and
- 25:20hopefully could do that for others.
- 25:22But to really think about
- 25:25intersectionality and these forces and
- 25:28systems of oppression that impact us and.
- 25:33Just hearing from.
- 25:36A voice that could share so much with us,
- 25:40and so that was really the impetus.
- 25:45I think I don't think we ever
- 25:47actually really talked about
- 25:49what was motivating you,
- 25:50so that was really nice to hear. Thank you.
- 25:52Uhm, well turning it over to Breonna.
- 25:56Uhm, I just wanted to ask you,
- 25:59it was interesting.
- 26:00You know when I first reached
- 26:02out to you a Mylene,
- 26:04Fernandez said this is Brianna's
- 26:06thing and so really curious to
- 26:08hear your reaction and thoughts
- 26:10to what you heard this afternoon.
- 26:14Yeah, well first I wanna say
- 26:16that I think that humility and
- 26:19reading a poem of the magnitude.
- 26:23The poems that you have here and
- 26:25saying well, this is that poem.
- 26:27I was just like boys spitting fire
- 26:29right now like I'm just clapping.
- 26:31You couldn't see my face so that's probably
- 26:33good and my my camera was off 'cause I
- 26:35would have been very distracting so up.
- 26:37But Eileen said this about me because
- 26:40I like to write poetry as well.
- 26:42Although I can't say that
- 26:44I'm I'm quite as good.
- 26:46UM, however, I think what?
- 26:49What sort of stands out when
- 26:52listening to poetry like this is dumb.
- 26:54A lot of different things for you.
- 26:56There was a lot of vulnerability.
- 26:58A lot of I don't know,
- 27:01just a lot of emotion and it
- 27:03takes a particular kind of talent
- 27:05to be able to leave emotion into
- 27:07something as abstract as a word.
- 27:10UM, I think that's literally like the
- 27:12best part of literature is being able
- 27:14to pick up on all of those emotions.
- 27:17All those little treats that an author
- 27:20leaves behind intentionally and and
- 27:23it's just like a little goodie bag.
- 27:25Uhm,
- 27:25so I actually had the poem up on
- 27:27my computer as you were speaking.
- 27:30I'm gonna weirdo that likes reading
- 27:32captions while the the television
- 27:34show is going on and that was also
- 27:3790s because I could see certain
- 27:39play on words like the a poem
- 27:42addendum at the last line.
- 27:43How to heal?
- 27:45How to heal and then how to heal up?
- 27:48You guys probably didn't notice,
- 27:49but the heel HEL and I I don't know.
- 27:52I just I got a real bang out of
- 27:54the the difference.
- 27:56Different use of of what is it called
- 27:58when you use a word that sounds the same?
- 28:01I can't remember what the the literary term
- 28:03is for well. I know what you mean. Yeah
- 28:07yeah yeah. So it was.
- 28:08It was very very exciting. So uhm.
- 28:10Those are the things that I
- 28:12think stood out to me the most.
- 28:14I know I sound really,
- 28:15really excited and dorky right now,
- 28:16but I I really enjoy
- 28:18listening to your poetry so.
- 28:22I know when I turn it back
- 28:23over to Kate and I'm sorry.
- 28:27And well, and I'm just going
- 28:28to turn it to to Wally now.
- 28:30Uhm, you are a. I may have messed
- 28:34this up your 4th year or fifth year.
- 28:37Analogically, 40 Braille
- 28:38calls at 50 year. It's weird.
- 28:42And so you're going to be leaving us soon,
- 28:45and I'm just curious from your perspective.
- 28:49I'm not going to call you young.
- 28:51I'm not gonna call you you
- 28:53through anything like that.
- 28:53But from your perspective,
- 28:55you know what was,
- 28:57what was your impression.
- 29:00Yeah, first of all,
- 29:01thank you so much for having me come.
- 29:03I just want to say I'm glad my
- 29:05video part was off 'cause I like
- 29:06tearing up behind the screen.
- 29:08So I was some of those.
- 29:09The point that JWB red were really
- 29:12impactful and some of them some of them I
- 29:15kind of could relate to in some capacity.
- 29:17Personally specifically the
- 29:19peacocking one that I really really
- 29:21that really moved me personally.
- 29:24I am so just about my experiences
- 29:26poetry so I love reading poetry
- 29:28but I tend to be poetry.
- 29:30Scripture 'cause I'm from Pakistan,
- 29:32and you know poetry is a big part
- 29:34of our literature over there.
- 29:36In English.
- 29:37Actually,
- 29:37I'm more familiar with the
- 29:39probate Pro is less with poetry,
- 29:41so when I was reading your poem
- 29:42I was actually 'cause since
- 29:43I'm not that familiar with,
- 29:45you know,
- 29:45I don't read a lot of English poetry,
- 29:47so I was having trouble understanding where
- 29:49to put the emphasis on which words emphasize.
- 29:51That's why when you were, you know,
- 29:53reading her poetry, I was reading it,
- 29:55but the system that still learn
- 29:57the things you emphasize,
- 29:58the how you gently change your like tone.
- 30:02But different with different
- 30:03you know aspects of the poem,
- 30:05so I found that really impactful and I
- 30:06found that it was so much different.
- 30:08Hearing it from you then reading
- 30:09it on a piece of paper.
- 30:11For me personally, actually.
- 30:14I also like there were you know there
- 30:16were so many teams that came up but actually,
- 30:18but the team of vulnerability was
- 30:20something that I connected the most with.
- 30:21Actually, you know,
- 30:22I personally come from a family
- 30:24that is very stoic, very stoic.
- 30:26You know,
- 30:27in our family we pride ourselves in
- 30:29being a rock essentially that no
- 30:31matter how much you are suffering
- 30:32or going through,
- 30:33never talk about it essentially and
- 30:36that's something I had to really like.
- 30:38Learn to grow out of,
- 30:39and in fact I understand that
- 30:41sometimes they can also be a sign
- 30:43of strength to be vulnerable.
- 30:44Uh, so I'd really like that point.
- 30:46Really spoke to me that the
- 30:48peacocking number,
- 30:48but but overall I really love it actually.
- 30:51Thank you so much for having me though.
- 30:56Thank you all. Uhm, I for the the
- 31:00audience I I really was looking for
- 31:03a group of folks that would bring
- 31:06lots of diverse perspectives and
- 31:08so I'm going to ask the panel and I
- 31:11invite everybody on the call to put
- 31:14in the chat as well and I believe
- 31:17Judy I shared with you some of the
- 31:20questions that were pre submitted.
- 31:22So if you want to address those in a
- 31:25moment but the the the title of this
- 31:28was poetry and the healing professions
- 31:31and part of the reason for that was
- 31:34because our original intent was that
- 31:36this would be for people in health care,
- 31:40whether students, trainees,
- 31:42or attending physicians,
- 31:44and it broadened it.
- 31:45It got much,
- 31:46much bigger than that very quickly,
- 31:49but I think there is a piece of this
- 31:52that still holds for us that poetry.
- 31:55Is often associated with
- 31:58healing in some capacity,
- 32:01so I definitely curious to hear what
- 32:03any of you have to say about that.
- 32:06And you know, Judy,
- 32:07I'll just sort of let you start.
- 32:10Start us off by commenting
- 32:11you know you saw the title,
- 32:13what?
- 32:14What kind of thoughts do you have about that?
- 32:18I. Write poetry not as my individual therapy.
- 32:23That's not how I think of it,
- 32:24but I see myself as embarking on a project.
- 32:27And like I said, I walk through the
- 32:29world in this body. This black fat.
- 32:32Cisgendered male queer body and I'm
- 32:36a member of several populations.
- 32:39Who the world would tell or does
- 32:42tell we can't afford vulnerability.
- 32:46Whether I'm a black man or a gay man,
- 32:48or queer or.
- 32:50Any number of things vulnerability is
- 32:53is snatched away from us and I I feel
- 32:56like that's also sort of of a piece
- 32:59with the notion of sentimentality,
- 33:02who gets to be Sacramento,
- 33:03who gets to be nostalgic in the world,
- 33:05those who have the history,
- 33:07those who were allowed, the history,
- 33:08and whether I'm black and our
- 33:10history was snatched from us around.
- 33:12Queer and people are every day in
- 33:15state houses in too many states in
- 33:18this country trying to erase us.
- 33:21It feels like allowing ourselves
- 33:24vulnerability and sentimentality
- 33:25is at once dangerous,
- 33:28but also liberating.
- 33:29We have to be able to engage in
- 33:32the full spectrum of human emotions
- 33:34and we have to be able to access.
- 33:36Our inner selves and I don't know
- 33:39how to do that without being open
- 33:42and available and shutting us
- 33:44off is a way of silencing.
- 33:46I think in more than one way I don't.
- 33:50How do I get to experience my full
- 33:53humanity if I can only be a caricature of
- 33:56a human being if I don't get to to cry
- 34:00and laugh and and giggle and be silly and?
- 34:03All those other things
- 34:05that aren't things that.
- 34:06We always get to be,
- 34:07so that's kind of how I approach it.
- 34:09I thought of it,
- 34:11uhm.
- 34:12And I think of what I why right
- 34:14is trying to help.
- 34:15Redefined masculinity quite honestly
- 34:17for me because of the way I grew
- 34:20up and what I think my project is.
- 34:23I don't think about audience when I write,
- 34:25but if somebody were to ask
- 34:27me who's your reading before.
- 34:29I think black folks Bradley,
- 34:30but I always think I'm making a gesture
- 34:32towards black women because I think
- 34:34it's a job black men need to do,
- 34:36and so I'm hopeful that as I'm doing it,
- 34:40there are other black men doing
- 34:43it and that we're encouraging
- 34:44more and more of us to do it.
- 34:47And when I say black women,
- 34:49I mean black women in nonbreeding folks,
- 34:51people. Other than black cisgender men.
- 34:55Because I, I see,
- 34:56I'm sure there is a million
- 34:57things to address in the world,
- 34:59but the older I get, the more I'm
- 35:02about I need to create the world.
- 35:04I want to live in.
- 35:05I can't solve all the problems in the world,
- 35:07and I can't change all the minds
- 35:09in the world, and that's no longer.
- 35:10Maybe it never was,
- 35:11but it's certainly not now my goal.
- 35:13My goal is to build the best
- 35:15world I could be in,
- 35:15and that's one where black
- 35:17folks contrive in one word
- 35:18career. Folks can try,
- 35:19and when were differently abled
- 35:21folks can thrive, and any number
- 35:24of other other folks can thrive.
- 35:29Yeah.
- 35:31Cindy Rihanna holly healing
- 35:35professions and poetry.
- 35:39Well, I think anyone in
- 35:41the healing professions.
- 35:41I think the art is just a powerful
- 35:45tool for self and for others.
- 35:47So I think any.
- 35:49Art form or medium that can help
- 35:52with self reflection and growth and
- 35:55giving voice to whatever it is that
- 36:00you're feeling and experiencing.
- 36:02I think it just helps us be that
- 36:05poetry or you know other art forms.
- 36:07I think it's just helps us on our path
- 36:11and journey to becoming whatever we want
- 36:14to be a man and just the self awareness.
- 36:21And freedom of expression.
- 36:22And I think that that's the the
- 36:25more we have that and can develop
- 36:28that within our own species.
- 36:30I think the better we're able to help
- 36:33others so you know, as as we can,
- 36:36you know, move along in our journey
- 36:38to whatever that is anti racist.
- 36:43Whatever that journey might be,
- 36:46and just humanness, quite frankly,
- 36:48frankly, I think the arts can and.
- 36:52Be a powerful tool in that process.
- 36:56I. I agree with Cindy. Uhm,
- 36:59I think much of the firm in medical
- 37:03in the medical profession.
- 37:04Much the language has evolved is
- 37:07much more equipped to like treat the
- 37:09human body as like a machine where
- 37:11there's like this other ring of,
- 37:13you know this is like kind of
- 37:16emotional distance that you kind
- 37:17of maintained by treating it.
- 37:19It's like a surgeon who covers the
- 37:21entire body and is that one area
- 37:22that's right there trying to operate on
- 37:24essentially where it's just that one
- 37:26thing that matters to them, that one.
- 37:28But there's a spleen or stomach,
- 37:30but the person itself isn't
- 37:31the most important thing.
- 37:33So much of the medicine.
- 37:34The language and medicine is kind of
- 37:36evolved to treat people like machines,
- 37:38and I think it's it's the humanities
- 37:40and the art that allows you to like,
- 37:42actually connect with the human
- 37:44side of medicine where trying to
- 37:46understand what it's like to be in
- 37:48a state when you're about to die,
- 37:49or being given a diagnosis of
- 37:52a terminal illness.
- 37:53Or what is it like to hear that
- 37:55your cancer is in remission?
- 37:56Those are some of the most.
- 37:57Human elements of medicine,
- 37:59and I think their best expressed
- 38:01in in art and in the humanities.
- 38:03And that's why it's really important
- 38:05to have that otherwise we can
- 38:07just have like robots running.
- 38:08You know, our hospitals essentially,
- 38:11and I think in terms of art form
- 38:13there's so many different art forms.
- 38:15But I think poetry,
- 38:16particularly in my opinion,
- 38:17is,
- 38:17and I find it the most accessible in a way,
- 38:20you know,
- 38:21because it's something that uses
- 38:22words in a sense,
- 38:23to to to express those emotions where.
- 38:27I think since language and words
- 38:29are the most you know,
- 38:31convenient way for humans to communicate,
- 38:33I think most people can can find
- 38:36it more easier to understand and
- 38:38get versus some of the other more.
- 38:40Either art from that exists out
- 38:41there where you might need to
- 38:43have other experience,
- 38:44or you know to be able to
- 38:47understand them better.
- 38:48So I think,
- 38:50and also poetry is just so effective
- 38:52and being able to evoke such strong
- 38:55emotions between such so few words.
- 38:57That's why I think it's just
- 38:59really valuable to have that.
- 39:02And now add on just a bit,
- 39:05so so I'm a scientist and I think
- 39:07that most people when they think
- 39:09about scientists, they think that.
- 39:11They remove us from being creative
- 39:13individuals 'cause you have
- 39:15math and science and all that.
- 39:17All those things.
- 39:17Then you have creativity,
- 39:19kind of as a separate bubble.
- 39:21But science is a is a creative
- 39:23process and I think a lot of
- 39:25people don't understand that so.
- 39:29For me, in terms of poetry,
- 39:31UM, I find creativity.
- 39:33I I find that poetry is.
- 39:38Is healing in a sense that it's
- 39:41just like what was mentioned before
- 39:43you sort of get to put emotions
- 39:45and and and deep thoughts into sort
- 39:47of I don't know, just on paper.
- 39:50Somewhere during the pandemic,
- 39:52especially when I had so much time
- 39:54being at home, I just didn't know what
- 39:56to do with my thoughts sometimes,
- 39:58so I would sit down on a blank
- 40:00sheet of paper and I would just,
- 40:01I guess, vomited my thoughts.
- 40:04Kind of out on the paper and and and
- 40:06and see kind of what came out of it.
- 40:09And it's it's.
- 40:10It's like a release, almost UM,
- 40:12especially when you've got a lot of negative
- 40:15things or you don't have to be negative,
- 40:18they can be positive too.
- 40:19But during the pandemic,
- 40:21a lot of things were very.
- 40:23Very negative for me anyways and
- 40:27and also dealing with the racial
- 40:30justice climate as a black woman I
- 40:33had a lot of negative feelings and
- 40:36sadness centered around that as well,
- 40:39but I just didn't know what to
- 40:42do with a while.
- 40:43I'm sitting at home with kind
- 40:44of no one really to talk to,
- 40:46so I think poetry in that way is is very,
- 40:50very healing. UM and and.
- 40:53Therapeutic, so those are my thoughts.
- 40:58Uhm, thank you uhm.
- 41:02I did want to just point out
- 41:04Allison played in the chat.
- 41:06Judy can you see that? Come.
- 41:11So I just had a chance to read it.
- 41:14Yes, I did actually and Alice to
- 41:16boil your question down Alice.
- 41:18I'm going to read the one line.
- 41:19I'd love to hear your thoughts about.
- 41:20Love, rage and vulnerability.
- 41:23I. That is the project though,
- 41:25isn't it what I am trying to do is allow
- 41:30us and my US is probably specific.
- 41:34I don't know.
- 41:34It includes everyone in the world,
- 41:35but maybe it it should.
- 41:36Maybe it does.
- 41:37But how can we heal if we can't
- 41:40be fully expressed human beings?
- 41:43There needs to be space for miragen.
- 41:46It's funny I was thinking about this
- 41:48recently and I decided that I need to
- 41:51thank Nina Simone and James Baldwin too for.
- 41:54Allowing me to make space for my range 'cause
- 41:56they did make space for theirs and I think.
- 41:59I don't need permission 'cause they've done
- 42:01it and they told me it was OK to do it.
- 42:04And if we don't get to be enraged,
- 42:06how do we get?
- 42:08'cause rage isn't the same,
- 42:10isn't it isn't automatically
- 42:13expressed by violence a lot.
- 42:16You know we live in a violent society
- 42:18and like I said, my artist is.
- 42:19It talks about writing about violence.
- 42:21My trick is always.
- 42:23To be reflective about violence
- 42:25and hopefully a thoughtful and
- 42:29interrogate if and maybe if I'm lucky,
- 42:31transformation away,
- 42:32but also I'm never, ever,
- 42:35ever mindful that I don't want
- 42:37to replicate the violence.
- 42:38I'm not just.
- 42:39I'm not merely a documentary and
- 42:42I might want to be that sometimes,
- 42:44but I'm not trying to recount the balance.
- 42:47Journalism exists. That's not my job.
- 42:50My job is to make you see a different angle.
- 42:54I hope so.
- 42:56There have been moments in
- 42:59recent relatively recent art.
- 43:01Where I wonder about that.
- 43:04A few years ago there was a
- 43:06woman who felt the need to paint,
- 43:08and I think the painting might be
- 43:10called the casket of Emmett Till
- 43:12what is the impact of painting that
- 43:15scene when Emmett Till's mother?
- 43:18Was very clear.
- 43:20About how she wanted her son to
- 43:23be presented to the world in that
- 43:26most tragic geting inconceivable
- 43:28of moments for her,
- 43:29why does that need to be repainted when,
- 43:32when. Michael Brown died.
- 43:35There was a poet who thought that
- 43:38it was a poetic experience to read.
- 43:42The autopsy report literally verbatim
- 43:44what is what does that accomplish?
- 43:48So I think about these kinds
- 43:49of things all the time.
- 43:49When I write, I'm trying to.
- 43:51Document violence,
- 43:52but.
- 43:53That's one level that's the
- 43:55first level of many what I'm
- 43:57really trying to do is make you
- 43:59think about a different way so.
- 44:01Rage,
- 44:01I think I'm trying to say does not
- 44:03equate to violence and I think I'm
- 44:05trying to separate these two and say I
- 44:07need as a human being as a black man.
- 44:09As a queer person.
- 44:10As somebody who feels an affinity
- 44:12with all sorts of other people
- 44:14around the world to be able to
- 44:16express my rage because injustice
- 44:17exists and then enrages me.
- 44:19But I also need to be able
- 44:21to do that in a way that
- 44:24ideally doesn't threaten you.
- 44:25In ways that make you want to pass
- 44:27laws about critical race theory,
- 44:28or in ways that make you
- 44:31when you pull me over.
- 44:33Have your hand on your gut.
- 44:35So that's a big project,
- 44:37but it's it's what I think I'm trying to do.
- 44:39Most of the time.
- 44:42I don't know if that made any sense.
- 44:45Thank you. No problem.
- 44:51Uhm?
- 44:54We have 6 minutes to go. Uhm?
- 45:01I do not want to risk.
- 45:06Missing the opportunity to come let folks
- 45:09know who has stayed on with us and and
- 45:12there's quite a few of you there that we.
- 45:15When we first started talking about this,
- 45:19uhm, we talked about doing a fall session,
- 45:23which is happening now and a spring session
- 45:27and the idea behind the spring session
- 45:29would be that we would bring Jubi back.
- 45:31Well, we would bring Jubi back,
- 45:34but in person and and and I'm you
- 45:37know now that I'm thinking about it.
- 45:40I I almost wonder, do we do an in person?
- 45:44You know redo? Of this event,
- 45:49because I can tell you the the workshop
- 45:51was an extraordinary experience,
- 45:53and I really want others to have an
- 45:57opportunity to come to share in that Ann.
- 46:00And I don't know,
- 46:02six months should be enough time
- 46:03for you to crank out a couple new
- 46:05ones and pick a few new ones, right?
- 46:07And I still have a couple that
- 46:09I wanted to read,
- 46:10so I just wanted to sort of put that
- 46:15little commercial out there that.
- 46:16That this was always intended
- 46:18to be a man and ongoing,
- 46:21uh adventure with one another.
- 46:26So I want to put that commercial
- 46:28out there in the last.
- 46:30Few minutes we literally have four,
- 46:32UM, did you want to touch upon?
- 46:34There was the one question and I
- 46:36can't remember who the person was
- 46:37and if they're even on right now.
- 46:39But there was somebody who made
- 46:41a very similar comment about not
- 46:42being able to get out of there.
- 46:44I I'm paraphrasing, get out of their own way.
- 46:48They were very right.
- 46:49Brain person.
- 46:50How can they tap into the poetic mind?
- 46:55They may have
- 46:56if that person didn't make the workshop
- 46:58this morning, I'm going to say.
- 47:01You know the university willing
- 47:03if I come in the spring,
- 47:04please take the workshop because
- 47:06it it's a lot about that.
- 47:09Poetry is not an experience of knowing.
- 47:13It's an experience of not knowing.
- 47:15It's an experience of discovery.
- 47:17Most poets will tell you
- 47:18when they sit down to write.
- 47:19They don't know where they're going
- 47:21to end up and poetry prompts to all
- 47:23design and the poetry prompt is just
- 47:25an idea that you can write off.
- 47:27And I gave the folks who participated
- 47:30in the workshop this morning.
- 47:32Uhm, a few poetry prompts that work for me.
- 47:35But also online,
- 47:36if you type in poetry prompts,
- 47:39you will find hundreds of them.
- 47:40It's an experience in.
- 47:44Not knowing where you're gonna
- 47:45go and being OK with that,
- 47:47not worrying about the destination,
- 47:49just taking the journey.
- 47:50I told a story in the workshop this morning.
- 47:53I'm I'm staying Airbnb in Oakland
- 47:55and this has a lovely garden and this
- 47:58morning I watched a Hummingbird flit
- 48:00around and experienced the joy of lavender.
- 48:04And I could write about the
- 48:06smell scent of lavender.
- 48:08I could write about.
- 48:09The ecstasy that that bird that
- 48:12Hummingbird appeared to be feeling I
- 48:14could write about what I as a human
- 48:17and doing or not doing to protect
- 48:19that environment and my worries about
- 48:21that Hummingbird not being around.
- 48:24In 1020 fifty there's there's so many
- 48:27opportunities and I think the trick is.
- 48:31Just don't you don't.
- 48:32It's not about the destination.
- 48:34If you're sitting down to write a poem,
- 48:35think I need to make this point?
- 48:37That's usually not poetry.
- 48:39Poetry is about the exploration.
- 48:42It's about the journey.
- 48:43I don't know.
- 48:44Hopefully that makes some sense,
- 48:46but also will get into that
- 48:48in workshop coming in April.
- 48:51Mustard.
- 48:53Uhm alright, uhm we did it. That was a
- 48:58lot in one hour I tender frozen. Am I?
- 49:04I think so.